When we think of Christmas, we tend to think about family time, a break, food, presents and the nativity scene.
This Christmas, I’d like to offer you a different way to enjoy Christmas. How about spending quality time with your sex life?
There are many gifts that you can choose for yourself and your sexual partner. Here is a small selection of sex toys that can spice up the festive season:
Fleshlight.Great for male solo sex or have your partner use it on you. There are many fleshlights you can choose: an anus, a mouth or a vagina. You can adjudt the tightness of the entry of the fleshlight, and the inside is designed for enhanced penile pleasure.
Rimming toy.Rimming is one of the great pleasures some men and women enjoy because there are many nerve endings in the entrance of the anus, so it’s a sensitive area of the body. It is a toy you can use for yourself, or you can use it whilst having sex with others, for extra enhanced pleasure.
Prostate massager.It’s another anal goodie for men. The prostrate is the G-spot place. This toy is specifically designed to reach the prostate effortlessly and stimulate it for enhanced pleasure. You can also use it on your own whilst masturbating or whilst your sex partner gives you oral sex, for example.
Masturbation toy. A good way to enhance the pleasure of masturbation for solo sex. Or why not ask a sex partner to do it for you? You can even play with bondage and edging! Just a thought.
Vibrators.There are vibrators of all shapes, sizes and colours. Take your pick! For something light and easy to use, try a small one that goes straight to the clitoris. It is ideal for solo sex, or as part of sex with others, during oral sex or penetration.
Or you can choose a bigger vibrator for penetration, which can also enhance vaginal or anal pleasure. You can use this one for solo sex or as part of sex with others.
Buying a sex toy is not a sign that your sex life isn’t working. It shouldn’t feel like a threat. Sex toys are great ways to enhance your sex life, bring variety to the bedroom and inject some excitement with exploring new things.
There are many sex toys on the market that you can look for, explore and try. The options are endless. We often neglect our sex life, thinking we’ll make it better when we have more time, but life will always be busy. Make sex one of your priorities: a satisfying sex life is good for mental and physical health.
This Christmas, find time to have a jolly good family time and also a hot sexual time that you can carry forward into 2019.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Silva Neves
